Zakaj po prekinitvi veze izgubljate svoje dostojanstvo?

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Zakaj po prekinitvi veze izgubljate svoje dostojanstvo?

Ne glede kakšna je bila vaša veza, je vsak konec veze težak in mislim, da smo že vsi bili v takšni situaciji. Iz vsake veze se lahko veliko naučite in ena od zelo pomembnih stvari je, da konec veze preživite čim bolj dostojanstveno. Ne objavljajte vašega burnega čustvenega stanje na Fb. To sporočilo se nanaša na vse družbene mreže, ki jim ni potrebno vedeti, kaj se dogaja v vašem privatnem in intimnem življenju. Po prekinitvi veze, mnogi objavljate pesmi s sporočilom ter jeznimi in žaljivi komentarji pod slikami. Zakaj mislite, da bi to pomagalo? Na takšen način najdete samo somišljenike, da lahko skupaj pljuvate po vašem partnerju? Mislite, da vam bo potem lažje? S tem samo pokažete, kdo ste vi in ne tista oseba, ki jo blatite in jo zmerjate s celim živalskim kraljevstvom. Ali res ne razumete, da pljuvate v lastno skledo, saj ste nekoč bili s to osebo? A mislite, da ga boste s tem kaznovali? Ne. Kaznujete samo sebe, ker ste neprestano v tem peklu in sebe prikazujete v najslabši luči.

Vam bo lažje če boste dobili nekaj like – ov in morda kakšnega z žalostnim obrazom? Verjamem, da je to mogoče čudovita terapija za izražanje svoje jeze, ranjenga ponosa, še bolje pa Ega, ki pa ni niti malo graciozna. Verjamem, da se boste tudi počutili bolje in vam bo lažje po nekem srce parajočem sporočilu partnerju, kot: “Vse se dogaja z razlogom” ali “Manjkaš mi, zlato moje, “ toda ta občutek je samo začasen in samo pokaže vsem, da niste v stanju nadaljevati svojega življenja. Če se vseeno najdete v skušnjavi, da objavite sporočilo izrecno čustvene vsebine, si ponavljajte mantro: “Fb ni moj dnevnik … “Najbolje je, da se za kratek čas umaknete od vsega, dokler se ne pomirite. Prenehajte ga slediti na njegovem profilu, na profilu njegovih prijateljev ali po lokalih, kamor ponavadi zahaja. Verjamem, da vas zanima vsaka podrobnost vašega bivšega, toda morate se upreti tej skušnjavi, ker je njegov status sedaj “bivši”.

Kaj vas briga, kaj sedaj počne ali kakšno življenje živi. Razumite, da ste z njim oddelali lekcijo, tako kot jo je on z vami. Sedaj je potrebno v življenju narediti korak naprej. Vem, da morda mislite, da ne boste našli drugega, vendar boste. Takoj, ko se boste pobrali in ugotovili, da ni konec sveta prej boste izšli iz depresivne faze. Ravno tako prenehajte vsakomur, ki vas vpraša, zakaj ste se razšli, govoriti o njegovih pomanjkljivostih in kakšen “kreten” je bil, ker boste izpadli še bolj obupani. Zadržite samospoštovanje in ne govorite o razpadu veze in, če je potrebno stisnite zobe – samo ne dovolite, da pride do njega informacija, kako jočete in govorite okoli, da je “kreten”. To vam nikakor ne bo pomagalo. Dostojanstvo je tisto, ki bi ga morali zadržati v vsaki situaciji, ne glede kako je težka. Dostojanstvo odseva našo sposobnost, da ravnamo na najbolj primeren in najbolj uravnotežen način s seboj. Ne glede na vse – ne smemo izgubiti dostojanstva za nič in za nikogar, ker tako izgubljamo sebe zaradi ljudi, ki si nas ne zaslužijo. Ohranite dostojanstvo za vsako ceno ter kljub obupu in prizadetosti, pojdite z dvignjeno glavo naprej, ker poznate svojo vrednost tudi, če vas okoliščine in negativni ljudje prepričujejo v nasprotno.

 

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