Vem, kako je nenehno primerjati sebe z drugimi. Ne delaj tega, ker smo vsi edinstveni. Ti si edinstvena. Ustvarjena si z veliko nežnostjo in hrepenenjem. Imaš svoj namen. Ne dovoli, da te zavajajoče naslovnice prepričajo, da nisi lepa, ker imaš “predebele noge” ali “premajhne oči.” Lepa si, daj svetu nasmeh, ker je tvoj nasmeh poseben, tvoje oči svetijo drugače kot moje.
Bodi to, kar si, sprejmi vsak del sebe ne glede na to, ali s kakšnim delom tvoje osebnosti ali videza nisi srečna. Tudi za ceno etiketiranja in posmeha. To je karakter. To je brezpogojna ljubezen. Potem ljubiš sebe, vse drugo pa je del tebe. Ti si magnet za sebi podobne. Si ljubezen in ustvarjaš obilje, ker si tam, kjer ni primerjave in nobenega dokazovanja sebe.
Ali misliš, če boš shujšala, da te bodo drugi imeli raje? Ali če si kupiš nove čevlje, dobre blagovne znamke? Potem bodo vsi rekli, da si v trendu? Pojdimo od začetka … Kateri kilogrami, kakšni čevlji, ličila? O čem govoriš? Kdo ti je napolnil glavo s temi neumnostmi? Draga ženska, če s tem meriš življenje in pomen, potem je to zelo žalostno. In zate in zame. In za vsakega od nas.
Lepo je biti lepa, a draga moja, to ni merilo
Ali misliš, da boš s hujšanjem ali dragimi čevlji postala druga oseba? Te magije ne poznam. Učili so me drugače. Sezula bom čevlje in jih dala nekomu, ki jih nima. Po tem sem človek. Šla bom na ulico in nekomu rekla, da je čudovit. Po tem sem človek. Nekoga bom poljubila in objela. Po tem sem človek. Nekomu bom oprostila. Po tem sem človek.
Deklica moja, ali veš, kaj si? Ali veš, zakaj si bila ustvarjena? Ali si prepričana, da poznaš odgovor? Zakaj si ne oprostiš? Zakaj se ponižuješ? Drugo ime zate je blagoslov, nežnost, lepota, ljubezen in resnica. Če bi le vedela, kako pomembna si za ta svet, nikoli ne bi pristala na manj, kot si zaslužiš. In zaslužiš si biti ljubljena.
Zaslužiš si, da te nekdo ljubi s celim svojim bitjem in da te ceni. Zaslužiš si biti odsev tega, kar je v tebi, in biti to, kar si, ko luči ugasnejo. Vse tvoje blagovne znamke oblačil o tebi ne govorijo ničesar. Samo ti govoriš zanje. Tistim, ki jih to zanima. Ko jih slečeš, poglej, s kom se lahko še naprej pogovarjaš in kdo te bo naslednjič poslušal. Takrat boš izvedela, koliko si v resnici vredna.
Ti nisi nobena opredelitev niti oznaka, ki so ti jo dali. Nisi bolečina in ne napaka. Nič te ne omejuje. Nisi nekdo, ki bi jo bilo mogoče nadomestiti. Ti si tisto, zaradi česar molčiš, kar je shranjeno v tvojem srcu. Čudovita si točno takšna, kot si. Vredna si vse ljubezni tega sveta. Resnične ljubezni, tiste ljubezni, ki je veliko več vredna od naličenega obraza in uglajenih čevljev. Veliko več od kilogramov in zgodb.
Verjemi mi, da si čudovita takšna, kot si
Prosim te, poglej se s srcem. Ljubljena in pametna si. Verjemi mi, da si čudovita takšna, kot si. Ljudje telovadimo in s prehrano se spreminjamo fizično, včasih pa potrebujemo preoblikovanje veliko globlje od tistega, kar lahko merimo s svetovnimi lepotnimi pravili. Potrebujemo preobrazbo, ki jo lahko dosežemo samo z molitvijo in ljubeznijo do sebe.
Oproščaj, ampak najprej sebi. In potem nadaljuj, ne ustavljaj se, ker življenje nikogar ne čaka. Poglej tisto, kar jaz vidim, čeprav te ne vidim. Ali ni to dovolj zgovorno? Nisi tisto, kar misliš, da drugi vidijo. Zaman ti to. Nasmej se, sprehodi se bosa po mehki trati, ne potrebuješ vedno visokih pet. Predstavljaj si ljubezen, vpleteno v vse pore tvojega obraza, las, prstov, oči … vse je ustvarjeno z ljubeznijo. In zato imej rada vse to. Naliči se ali pa tudi ne. Bodi dolgolaska ali kratkolaska. Bodi močna, bodi nežna, bodi čustvena, bodi klepetava … Bodi medicinska sestra ali plesalka. Bodi učiteljica ali pisateljica. Bodi tisto, kar želiš; prijateljica, mama, sestra, partnerka – samo bodi srečna, samo bodi Ti.
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