Če bi vama bilo usojeno, bi zdaj bil tukaj
Odhodi so težki. Jasno, da za tistega, ki ostane. Tistemu, ki ga zapusti, je enostavno; je njegova želja. Zato si zapomni naslednje: “Če te ima nekdo rad, ne bo odšel. Ne bo te izpustil. Ne bo želel nečesa boljšega, nečesa novega. “Če te nekdo ljubi, bo ostal za vsako ceno in kljub vsem oviram. Toda, če nekdo želi oditi, ga pusti. Ne drži se konic njegovih prstov. Če bi vama bilo usojeno, bi se držala za roke. Ne opravičuj ga na sto načinov, zakaj ni s tabo, ker je samo eden, edini razlog, zakaj ni s tabo. Ne želi te v svojem življenju. Zbeganost, negotovost; bil bi s tabo, vendar je oklevanje znak nekoga, da nisi globoko v njegovem srcu, še manj v njegovem umu. Nisi tista, ki bi jo želel poleg sebe. Če nekoga resnično ljubiš, si še bolj prepričana, da si ga želiš ob sebi, saj te ta oseba popolnoma izpolni. Tako močno te prežema, da je v tvojih kosteh in ne le v srcu. In ni dvoma in ni prednosti ali slabosti. Brez malo premisleka si prepričana, da si želiš ravno njega. “
Ne glede na to, kako boleče in uničujoče se sliši, to je edina resnica, ki jo moraš vedeti. Verjetno jo poznaš, a tega ne želiš priznati. Lažje je iskati razloge, ki bi lahko bili upravičeni v tvoji “nehvaležni” odločitvi. Če bi hotel biti s tabo, bi bil s tabo. Odločitev je zelo preprosta. Ko si res želiš biti z nekom, tudi boš. Ne laži si, da te pogreša, da pričakuje tvoje sporočilo ali, da si mogoče na potezi, da prva pokličeš, ker mu ne dovoli ponos. Naj te to ne zavede. Ne delaj si tega. Tega ne potrebuješ.
Če nekdo želi biti del tvojega življenja, se bo potrudil, da ga bo ustvaril. Zato se ne trudi v srcu obdržati prostora za nekoga, ki se ne trudi tam ostati. Kdor te pogreša in te želi ob sebi, se bo potrudil, da boš ob njem. Ni ovir, ni ponosa, ki ga ne bi mogel pohoditi, da bi te imel ob sebi vsak dan, vsako minuto, vsako jutro in vsako noč. In dobro si zapomni: “Obstajajo tisti, ki te izberejo, ker nimajo nikogar drugega, in tisti, ki te izberejo, ker nočejo nikogar drugega.”
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