Če bi bilo vredno – bi trajalo
Razmišljate kdaj o ljudeh, ki so bili nekoč v vašem življenju? Zaupali ste si skrivnosti, se znašli v različnih situacijah in potem so ti ljudje nenadoma odšli iz vašega življenja in jih morda vidite, samo še na kakšni stari sliki. Zakaj je to tako? Ljudje zelo pogosto prihajajo v naša življenja nepričakovano, ampak skoraj vedno z enakim presenečenjem odidejo iz njega. Za nekaterimi nam je zelo žal, ker smo mislili, da nikoli ne bo prišel dan, ko se ne bomo več družili. Vendar, to ni konec sveta. Oni niso več del našega življenja in na to moramo gledati, kot na dobro stvar. Če bi bilo vredno – bi trajalo. Ko se staramo, pustimo v naše življenje vse manj ljudi. In to je povsem v redu. Zakaj? Ko smo mladi, si želimo, da bi bili z vsemi prijatelji. Preveč nas skrbi, kaj si drugi mislijo o nas. Mogoče smo tudi včasih delali določene stvari, samo, da bi nas kdo sprejel. Toda, to potem ni pravo prijateljstvo. Takrat nismo razumeli opozorilnih znakov ali pa nismo bili dovolj spretni, da bi prepoznali, da drugi “hodijo” po nas.
Z leti, ko postajamo zrelejši, postajamo vse manj strpnejši, da bi sprejemali določene stvari. Nimamo več časa za nezrele neumnosti, tudi če to pomeni, da se več ne boste videvali z ljudmi, s katerimi smo včasih preživeli veliko časa. Pridemo do točke v kateri sklepanje novih prijateljstev, ni več na našem seznamu prioritet – niti blizu. Vendar, to ne pomeni, da niste več družabna oseba. Pogovarjamo in družimo se z ljudmi, sodelujemo pri raznih družbenih aktivnostih, ampak jih ne spustimo več v svojo ožjo izbiro. Ne zaupamo jim skrivnosti in ne dovolimo si, da nas vidijo, ko smo ranljivi.
Zagotovo ste že doživeli, da so vas ljudje zapustili s takšno lahkoto. Ljudje, za katere ste mislili, da so kvalitetni in, da vam bodo vedno stali ob strani. To je bil obenem tudi način, ki vam je odprl oči. Zaradi tega ste postali močnejši. Zaradi tega imate tako debelo kožo, da vam niti ni pomembno, kar si drugi mislijo o vas. Tisti najboljši ljudje, so še ostali dalje z vami – njihovo mišljenje spoštujete, kot tudi oni vaše in takšni ljudje so za vas pomembni. Vsi ostali… Kakšna sreča, da so odšli. Ko se prenehate obremenjevati z drugimi in začnete imeti radi sebe, takrat se začnejo stvari obračati na bolje. Takrat prenehate delati stvari, s katerimi bi zadovoljili druge in delate stvari, da bi zadovoljili sebe. Veliko prijateljstev se je “zlomilo,” ravno zaradi tega preprostega dejstva. Zato začnite izboljševati sebe, na vse mogoče načine in postanite oseba, ki resnično ve, kar si želi.
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